On June 11th, I turned the Big 4.0., yes 40! Yeah Me! I’ve entered the 40 club! “ Well, I was expecting the over the top 40th birthday party, extravagant and expensive gifts, or maybe the trip of
a life time! Instead, I got the usual notifications on FB, personal calls that were warming and full of laughter, and failures to launch parties! Then I looked at me and yet again; I failed to plan for ME. Instead of the usual dinner with family and friends; I took time to evaluate myself, GOD provided accomplishments within a whole six months to the past year while in my last year in my thirties. I also thought about my struggles that I have been enduring in silence and my battles that I turned over to GOD. I took that time to relax near water and enjoy the view and myself.
After my “me” time, I started to feel a sense of being placed on the back burner, used, overlooked, minimized, or treated as “oh, it’s just another day.” Well, after praying about my whole birth date; I began to re-evaluate the circle of people who I have allowed in my life and then it was placed in my heart that it’s no ones responsibility to celebrate and love me but ME! At 40, and previous years I decided to do what’s best for me, my mental health, physical health, and my whole life while still raising my kids. What I have experienced in one day has taught me that I will have to find happiness in the things that I want to find happiness in and never look to anyone to make that decision for me.
Turning 40 is a huge milestone for any person. I still believe that it is what you make it. After last night, I left fear at the door, I left blame there too, I left waiting at the door mat, and I also left people’s opinions there, too. When I opened the door to 40 years on earth; I gained myself, respect, no care, myself with no strings attached and my ability to do what’s right for me. No matter what is or has been done; I am moving forward in my 40’s and will continue to knock down walls to greatness!
My Journey in my 40’s has just begun but life will continue to move on!
Yes, 40 is a serious milestone, here’s an old school phrase for ya, “keep on trucking baby.”
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I enjoyed your Blog Sis!
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